左右されない。

 

人の価値観に左右されない。

 

 

 

他の人が、イヤなことでも、

自分は別に気にならないことがある。

他の人達がイヤだからといって、

そっちに、引っ張られたり、合わせなくてもいい。

 

 

同様に、他の人が 辛いことでも、

自分は別に辛くないこともある。

 

他の人が休んでたからといって、

別に 自分が疲れていなければ 休まなくてもいい。

 

逆に、自分が疲れていれば、

自分だけ休ませてもらってもいい。

のだと思います。

 

_

周りの人達の価値観(したい、したくない)を

気にしなくていいんです。

 

自分が、何をしたいのか、したくないのか、

自分の心を 素直に感じる、そして行動する。

 

そうすることが、

自分を大切にするということ。

 

 

 

多くの人の価値観とは、

それぞれの人の価値観が集まって、

数が多くなっていること。〔多数派の部分をピックアップしている。〕

 

その 多くの人達には、当てはまる可能性が

高いかもしれないが、

 

細分化した 個々の人としたときに、

その人に当てはまるかというと、

そうでもないことが 当然ながらあります。

 

 

 

「自分自身の価値観」、

「多くの人の価値観」を、それぞれに

知っておく必要はあるかもしれません。

 

が、

自分自身が行うのは「自分自身の価値観」の方だけでいい。

 

 

「多くの人の価値観」は、他の人が望む傾向が高い価値観なので、

「他の人にやってあげると 喜ばれやすいこと」という認識で

活用すればいいんだと思います。

 

誰かにあげるプレゼントであったり、ビジネス的に お客様のニーズを

探ることに参考(活用)にしたり。

(ただ、ちゃんと、相手にも実際にリサーチすることが大切です。相手も個性的を 好む人かもしれないので(笑)。)

 

 

 

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